In December, I determined to let go of all the holiday
preparations that left me feeling anxious and out of time. Basically, that
meant …. Everything!
I did buy gifts, and that right there was enough to
stress me out. Gift-buying is not my thing. I’m not good at it. In fact, as
catharsis I wrote all about my feelings regarding gifts in “The
Challenge of Gift Giving.”
However, I learned there seemed to be less joy in the
season by NOT doing those traditions I had always done.
The one I missed the most was the tradition of sending
out my Holiday Letter. For twelve years I faithfully sent out a letter to
family and friends (and practically everyone I knew) telling of family events
and a scripture God had laid on my heart for the coming year. When my mailing
list reached over 100, I decided to take a break.
Nope, can’t do it. It doesn’t feel right not sending
out messages to my loved ones. After all, most of them only hear from me once a
year.
This is a tradition that must go back into my
holidays, although perhaps the list of recipients might be pared down.
During December, I featured in my sidebar my 2012
December series, “Because He Came.” Because I like this series so much, I
directed blog-traffic to the initial post, Because He
Came, I have Abundant Life. You can find links there to all 23 posts expressing
gratitude for the blessings Jesus brought when He put on flesh and moved into
the neighborhood.
December brought some ideas to mull on spiritually:
For instance, have you stopped to consider your life
with all its joys, struggles and trials would be a fairy tale to others who
would love to have some of things you enjoy? (Dirty dishes in a sink would be a
dream to a starving person.) I wrote how my eyes were open to my blessings in “I’m Living
that Life.”
December 4’s devotional in the Every Day with Jesus
bible brought the thought that “protecting one’s self more than loving another
is a definition of sin.” Much to ponder there …
Also, in December a study of Psalm 68 yielded this
thought: The name Yahweh is
associated with God as the Becoming One, the God who becomes what His people
need. It took me some time to think, but in January I posted on this very
thought in “The Becoming One.”
Also,
this winter I learned of a sickness I have: “Nostomania” – a word of Greek origin meaning an
intense homesickness; an irresistible compulsion to return home. I experience
it almost daily – not just the desire to return to my earthly address, but more
and more I want to be at my heavenly abode which keeps me on my Journey.
January is always a time of reflection for me; a
time I review all I have written in the past year, see “2017
Year in Review,” and when I pick my “One Word 365” for the year. I had hoped to be much further along in my
goals but after thinking it over, I decided to “press on.”
I decided to boil down my goals to two simple
directives: write 500 words and walk 6,000
steps daily. Here February’s end is fast approaching. Have I done those two
things every day? No. But I’m a lot further along than if I had never set those
goals!
Press on.
In February, my thoughts turned to love as the
hubs and I celebrated 42 years of marriage, and, well … Valentine’s Day! Of
course, I had to write about these things, so my tribute to Jim was chronicled
in “Love Is …Serving”
, and then thinking about God’s command to love one another prompted the
post,
“Love Is … Laying Down Your Life.”
Let’s just say I challenged myself greatly with that post!
Let’s just say I challenged myself greatly with that post!
And so now, Spring is approaching. I take heart
from that, I keep pressing on this Journey, one foot in front of the other, one
word written at a time. Yes, the trees look like brown sticks but the skies
have been a glorious blue lately.
New growth is on the way, both on the earth, and
in my heart.
How was your winter? Has it been a cozy time of
settling in and taking stock? Or is Spring fever a thing with you?
I'll be linking this post with a number of amazing communities: Emily's What We Learned, Char's Trekking Thru the Week, Jennifer's #TellHisStory, and Brenda's Chasing Community Link-up. I'm so grateful for the opportunity to share my work!
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I'll be linking this post with a number of amazing communities: Emily's What We Learned, Char's Trekking Thru the Week, Jennifer's #TellHisStory, and Brenda's Chasing Community Link-up. I'm so grateful for the opportunity to share my work!
Wow, Jerralea, you've packed a whole lot into winter! Makes spring's upcoming arrival seem closer than ever!
ReplyDeleteI hear you about the Christmas cards. I've gone years without sending them, but always go back to doing it. Makes me realize how much I miss those old friends ...
I never did Christmas cards with those newsletters until we were married. And then one year, after our oldest girl was born, we realized that 1. our list was WAY TOO LONG 2. it ended up sounding a bit too much like bragging and 3. we wanted to just send to very far away friends whom we don't text or see on social media. SO....for the last 5 years I just send Cards and newsletters to those family members who are not on social media.
ReplyDeleteYou really used the winter months well for your blogging and I have read almost all of your posts although I don't always comment. The Lord has given you a love language that is NOT gifts if you don't get joy from gift giving. and that is OK! My husband's love language is Words of Affirmation and although he likes the gifts I choose for him, he'd rather I gave him praise for something he's done for me or the family/house.
LOVE this post and your reflections.
Good reflections and evaluations. It is true that even if we don't master the goals we set we are better off setting them and working towards mastering them. Have a good rest of the week!
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