Tuesday, October 2, 2012

Day 2 - Be Gracious

One major way we encourage each other is by the things we say. 

There is power in the words of our mouth.  Let us use our words to edify, not tear down.  I'm sure we can all remember hurtful things that were said to us years ago.  The sting of ugly words never leave.

Colossians 4:6 KJV
Let your speech be always with grace, seasoned with salt, that ye may know how ye ought to answer every man.

Or in the words of another translation:

Colossians 4:6 (NLT)
Let your conversation be gracious and attractive so that you will have the right response for everyone.

The Message puts it this way:  "...Be gracious in your speech. The goal is to bring out the best in others in a conversation, not put them down, not cut them out."

Our conversations should not be to impress someone with our brilliance. We should be gracious toward others.  The bigger person makes everyone feel at ease and their opinions valued. 

A gracious person attracts others.  Unkind people repel. When you are with someone who dominates a conversation, or belittles your ideas, what is your reaction?  You want to get away as soon as possible. You feel unappreciated.

The next time you are with someone, make it your goal to make them feel valued by listening to their ideas. Say something uplifting. Be gracious!

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Anonymous said...

Jerralea...this is so important to remember this with our mouth! Our mouth can be used for blessings or for cursing someone. It is so important to speak LIFE into their Life...and to bless them with the Blessings of Truth and Life, and tell them the Way. Jesus did this for me, and us, and we need to share His LOVE with others. I love the word Gracious~ It is a sweet word that speaks of love, patience, and gentleness. ♥♥♥

Mary Reed said...

Jerralea, thanks for this great post! Speaking life-giving words and listening with a grace-filled heart certainly requires His grace poured into our lives. So thankful for His grace!
I'm a new follower linked from A Pause on the Path. I'd like to invite you to visit and follow!

Denise said...

Thanks for the encouragement.

May said...

Such truth. I am sending up a prayer that my words build up rather than tear down.

Anonymous said...

I love me some of this! Thanks for sharing :)