Friday, October 29, 2010

Friday's Fave Five #112



On Fridays, I always participate in a meme called "Friday's Fave Five" hosted by Susanne at Living to Tell the Story.  It's a great way to remember the good stuff of life!  We are each to share 5 things that was a highlight, a favorite or something that made us smile this week.

 
1. One highlight of my week is that my daughter got her Senior pictures.  I can't believe my baby is a senior!  I'll share one now (and save the others for later!).



Malia

2.  I have just not felt that great this week so I have been going to bed early most nights.  I know I've mentioned this before but I have to say one of my favorites is my comfy bed. When I think of how many people in the world don't even have a bed, I am really grateful for what I have. My prayer is that everyone finds a warm comfortable place to sleep.

3. Homemade apple butter!  My friend, Marti, brought me a jar of apple butter that she had made.  Apple butter brings memories of my granny who used to make some every year.  I like to make peanut butter and apple butter sandwiches.

4. Homemade Chicken Noodle Soup:  I made the recipe that Lisa Writes share on FFF about 3 weeks ago.  It was delicious! Even my picky daughter liked it. Here is the link.

5. Quote of the Week:

“Discernment is not a matter of simply telling the difference between right and wrong; rather it is telling the difference between right and almost right.” Charles H. Spurgeon
May I have more and more discernment! [I think I saw this on Laura's Outnumbered Mom blog, but it was too good not to share again!]

So, that's it. My favorite 5 from this week. What's yours?  Link up at Living to Tell the Story and share! 

Thursday, October 28, 2010

Thankful Thursday - Thankful for My Calling



This month's Thankful Thursday's hostess, Lynn, has asked us to share a scripture verse that God is using in your life to craft your character or one that has exposed a lie, a verse that brought you peace or comfort or a passage that has inspired you to draw closer to Jesus.


This scripture is currently inspiring me to draw closer to Jesus:

"And so we keep on praying for you, that our God will make you worthy of the life to which He called you. And we pray that God, by His power, will fulfill all your good intentions and faithful deeds." 2 Thessalonians 1:11


I want to lead a life worthy of my calling. I have been called first and foremost to be His daughter.  I want to be worthy of being called the King's daughter!  Because of that, I desire to live a life with a higher standard. Do I fall short?  Yes! Often!  But I ask forgiveness, then pick myself up and press on.

I have been called to be a wife. I believe in sticking with your mate through thick and thin.  Am I the perfect wife?  No!  There are areas definitely that I need to improve on. As long as everyday I make the choice to love, I believe I'm heading in the right direction.


I have been called to be a mother. Am I the best mother?  No!  I often fall short.  I know my faults as a mother, but one thing I hope to do is to model Christ before them. I believe modeling Christ draws people to Him. If nothing else, if my kids know I love them and that I love Jesus and believe that serving Him is the only truly important thing in life, then I will have done my job.

God has chosen for me now, at this point in my life, to work outside the home and I'm blessed to be a ministry assistant in a church.  Any type of ministry involves a call to be a servant.  I pray every day to have a true servant's heart. Am I the best servant?  No! I still have days when self rises up and does not want to put others first.

I am thankful that God has trusted me with these callings!  I'm also really thankful that His word promises that He will give me power to fulfill these callings! My part is to draw close to Him and use His strength, not mine.


If you'd like to read other thankful hearts, go to Lynn's blog, Spiritually Unequal Marriage.

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Random for 10/27/10



Today there are only 2 Random Dozen questions:

1. What scares you the most

A) Physically
B) Emotionally

Why does it scare you, and how do you cope?

Physically, I'm terrified of mice and I'm terrified of heights.  It's a toss-up between the two.  I think the reason mice scare me is because one of my earliest memories is seeing a mouse jump out of a cereal box and my mother screaming.  (Who wouldn't?)  And the reason I'm afraid of heights is because I don't want to fall and hurt myself. I cope by buying lots of mice poison and never going higher than the second rung of a ladder.

Emotionally, the idea of losing one of my children scares me the most.  I think that is a fear most moms have.  I cope by reminding myself of 1 Corinthians 10:13 which tells me that God will not put more on me than I can bear. If ever I have to walk through that valley, He will carry me through it.


2. What comes to mind when you read the phrase, "Nothing gold can stay?"

When I hear "nothing gold can stay" I think of another phrase "this, too, shall pass."  This is the way life is, nothing stays the same forever, both good and bad will pass away. Life is change.


If you'd like to join in the randomness, visit Linda at 2nd Cup of Coffee.

Monday, October 25, 2010

Are You Armed and Dangerous?


Are You Armed and Dangerous
Or
Are You Asleep or Daydreaming?

I think the church today is as a whole very apathetic.  We are supposed to be in a battle, yet most of us are napping. Daydreaming can be dangerous!

Once, daydreaming cost me dearly!  I was in my ninth grade Physical Education (P.E.) class and our coach decided our class assignment would be to play softball. I did not care about softball.  Softball playing might involve sweat and dirt.  Not for me! So, I did what I usually did, went out into the outfield and pretended to pay attention. After several balls went whizzing by me without me even noticing, the coach decided she would force me to pay attention. "Come up here, you're going to be our next catcher." Obediently, I trotted up to home plate, crouched down into my idea of what a catcher's stance would look like, positioned my hands just so, and then went back to daydreaming.  If I had been paying attention at all, I would realize the next hitter had a habit of stepping back when she connected with the ball.  But no, I was occupied with thinking about whatever ninth grade girls dream about. Smack! The batter connected with the ball by first smacking my hand with the bat. Needless to say, I had a broken hand to deal with for the next six weeks.

It could have been avoided if I had just been alert! Spiritually speaking, how many times could failure have been avoided if we had been awake, armed and ready for battle.

The Word says we are to be a good soldier of Jesus Christ!

Actually, we are going to have times of Enduring Hardship!

"And the things that thou hast heard of me among many witnesses, the same commit thou to faithful men, who shall be able to teach others also.  Thou therefore endure hardness, as a good soldier of Jesus Christ.  No man that warreth entangleth himself with the affairs of this life; that he may please him who hath chosen him to be a soldier." 2 Timothy 2:2-4

Have we gotten ourselves so wrapped up in this earthly life that not only are we no threat to the enemy, we don’t even realize we have an enemy?

As some of you know, I am getting a new son-in-law, and he is in the military.  As I have been hearing about him going to basic training and the changes he is going through, I started thinking of our call to be soldiers for Christ.

Training for Christ

When a soldier goes to boot camp, he has to train.

A Christian soldier has to study. Instead of building physical muscles, he needs spiritual muscles.

"Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth." 2 Timothy 2:15

When the enemy tries to lie to you, if you know the word, you can tell what the truth is.

"Then said Jesus to those Jews which believed on him, If ye continue in my word, then are ye my disciples indeed;  And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free." John 8:31-32

When satan tries to bind you up with lies, the truth makes you free.  You don’t have to fall into the trap that is laid before you when you know better!

"I am the vine, ye are the branches: He that abideth in me, and I in him, the same bringeth forth much fruit: for without me ye can do nothing.  If a man abide not in me, he is cast forth as a branch, and is withered; and men gather them, and cast them into the fire, and they are burned.  If ye abide in me, and my words abide in you, ye shall ask what ye will, and it shall be done unto you." John 15:5-7

If you have been abiding, dwelling in His Word, fruit will start showing in your life. Remember what happened to the disciples?  People took note that they had been with Jesus.  They knew they were unlearned men, no college degrees, no fancy titles, yet there was just something commanding and powerful about them. It was the Jesus in them!

It takes work to really know the Word!  I’m not talking about reading the bible through in a year (although that’s a good thing).  Many times when people are on a quest to read the bible in a year, they are racing along and not really letting the word sink deep down in their spirit.  They are not meditating or memorizing it. I’m talking about getting the word deep down in your spirit where you really KNOW what it says.  That takes work – it takes effort!

A military man might have to hike 20 miles wearing all his equipment.

Can’t we work just as hard learning to be soldiers for Christ?

Look like a Soldier

A soldier also gets a new wardrobe, army fatigues, army boots, dress uniform, all the equipment necessary for battle.

A Christian soldier also has battle equipment, new shoes and clothing:
 
"Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand.  Stand therefore, having your loins girt about with truth, and having on the breastplate of righteousness; And your feet shod with the preparation of the gospel of peace;  Above all, taking the shield of faith, wherewith ye shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked.  And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God:  Praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, and watching thereunto with all perseverance and supplication for all saints" Ephesians 6:13-18

All the equipment is defensive except praying and using the word of God.  We have to study to know the word of God.  We have to be sure that nothing hinders our prayers.

"Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered." 1 Peter 3:7

God cares how you treat your spouse - it could hinder your prayers! (Ladies, this includes you!)  Unforgiveness can hinder you:
"And when ye stand praying, forgive, if ye have ought against any: that your Father also which is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses. But if ye do not forgive, neither will your Father which is in heaven forgive your trespasses" Mark 11:25-26

Praying is a Christian soldier’s way to wage warfare.  We are to be interceding for one another.  We are to be in constant communication with the Holy Spirit so that when He wants us to move, we move, when He wants us to speak, we speak, when He wants us to be silent, we are quiet.

Remember, our weapons are not Uzis and derringers, bombs and swords.  Our weapons are the word of God and prayer.
 
"For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war after the flesh:  (For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds;)  Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ" 2 Cor. 10:3-5

It’s hard work to bring every thought into captivity!  An apathetic person can’t do it, a daydreamer sure can’t do it!


Soldiers Are Alert and Vigilant

Soldiers have to take turns being a watchman. It would be really embarrassing to be caught asleep on your watch.  You might be thrown in a brig (or worse) if you were caught.

Christian soldiers need to be alert at all times, too.
 
"Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you.  Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour: Whom resist stedfast in the faith, knowing that the same afflictions are accomplished in your brethren that are in the world." 1 Peter 5:7-9

A soldier could be ambushed at any time.  A soldier may not know when his leading officer will tell him to attack the enemy.

In the same way, we don’t know when a battle is coming:

"Watch and pray that you may not enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak." Mark 14:38

We don’t know when the Day of the Lord will come.

"Therefore, stay awake, for you do not know on what day your Lord is coming." Matt. 24:42

"But stay awake at all times, praying that you may have strength to escape all these things that are going to take place, and to stand before the Son of Man." Luke 21:36

"So then let us not sleep, as others do, but let us keep awake and be sober" 1 Thess. 5:6

We are called to be watching!

Soldiers obey their commanders without question.

God expects us to obey.

"And hereby we do know that we know him, if we keep his commandments. He that saith, I know him, and keepeth not his commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him.  But whoso keepeth his word, in him verily is the love of God perfected: hereby know we that we are in him." 1 John 2:3-5 

Instead of feats of daring, He would rather know that He can count on us to obey.


"And Samuel said, Hath the LORD as great delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices, as in obeying the voice of the LORD? Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice..." 1 Samuel 15:22

 Don’t get a discharge! Keep on Keeping On

Sometimes soldiers get discharged, honorably, dishonorably or for medical reasons.


Christ said in the last days, the elect would grow cold towards Him:

"And because iniquity shall abound, the love of many shall wax cold.  But he that shall endure unto the end, the same shall be saved."  Matt. 24:12-13    
            
"And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not" Galatians. 6:9

"But ye, brethren, be not weary in well doing" 2 Thessalonians. 3:13

Examples of Endurance
  
"For God is not unrighteous to forget your work and labour of love, which ye have shewed toward his name, in that ye have ministered to the saints, and do minister.  And we desire that every one of you do shew the same diligence to the full assurance of hope unto the end:  That ye be not slothful, but followers of them who through faith and patience inherit the promises.  For when God made promise to Abraham, because he could swear by no greater, he sware by himself,  Saying, Surely blessing I will bless thee, and multiplying I will multiply thee.  And so, after he had patiently endured, he obtained the promise." Hebrews 6:10-15

"Wherefore seeing we also are compassed about with so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so easily beset us, and let us run with patience the race that is set before us,  Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith; who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God.  For consider him that endured such contradiction of sinners against himself, lest ye be wearied and faint in your minds.  Ye have not yet resisted unto blood, striving against sin." Hebrews 12:1-4

See, don't be slothful (or lazy), run your race! Endure! 

Even the longest battles are eventually over.

Eventually the tour of duty is over, the soldier goes on leave.

The Christian soldier goes through trials and tests, but they end.

"Many are the afflictions of the righteous but the Lord delivereth them out of them all." Psalm 34:19

As long as we are on this earth, we face struggles and tests.  This is not heaven on earth. (I’ve come full circle, right back to where I started!)

Here’s the good news:

Soldiers are often decorated for their bravery.

Earthly soldiers received stripes, badges and medals. Sometimes outstanding feats of bravery will net them a Purple Heart, but Christian soldiers will get crowns and gold!

"Blessed is the man that endureth temptation: for when he is tried, he shall receive the crown of life, which the Lord hath promised to them that love him."  James 1:12

"And when the chief Shepherd shall appear, ye shall receive a crown of glory that fadeth not away." 1 Peter 5:4

"when he hath tried me, I shall come forth as gold." Job 23:10

Father, help us to be trained and armed for battle. Help us to be alert and obedient. Let us not grow cold but endure to the end.  Help us win battles for You!



The Simple Woman's Daybook - October 25, 2010

FOR TODAY, MONDAY, OCTOBER 25, 2010

Outside my window ... dawn breaking on a warm fall morning.  The weather is just weird anymore!
I am thinking ... how quickly time passes ... life just flies by!
I am thankful for ... the ability to breathe.  Think about any time you have a sinus infection and can't breathe.  How much a struggle it is when something impedes your airway.  It makes you appreciate when you can breathe and not think anything about it. I'm especially thankful for when I can breathe in fresh air and smell wonderful fragrances.
From the kitchen...meatloaf, mashed potatoes and baby peas.
I am wearing ...brown pants, brown wedges, and purple top.
I am going ... to trust that everything will work out.
I am reading... once again, "Anne of the Island," by L. M. Montgomery.  Classic!  I have always wanted to BE Anne!
I am hoping...that everything connected to my daughter's upcoming wedding goes off smoothly.
I am hearing...the tick-tock of my little clock on my desk, occasional passers-by on the road next to my house.
Around the house...I need to tackle some dusting ... Why is it that I hate to do that?
One of my favorite things...my Sunday afternoon nap!
A few plans for the rest of the week ... Women's Ministries meeting Tuesday and posting a new Words to Stand On sometime this week.
Here is a picture thought I am sharing:



God's handiwork.


Peggy Hostetler is the creator of the Daybook concept.  To join in, visit her blog at The Simple Woman's Daybook.

Friday, October 22, 2010

Friday's Fave Five #111


This week was another unremarkable week, yet there are always highlights, or favorites, to be found.

1.  Yellow kitchens:  What can I say?  I love bright sunny yellow kitchens. It goes well with my sunflower obsession. A few weeks back, I shared how I had found the perfect curtains for my kitchen. I was asked to share a picture of them, so here they are:


The print on the ruffle features sunflowers.  When the blinds are open, it makes the kitchen so much lighter, which is needed because my yellow walls are a VERY yellow color, as you can see below:


Yellow just makes me happy!

2.  As I mentioned last week, I was scheduled to have part 2 of my makeover.  I got highlights in my hair with two colors instead of one.  I don't have a picture yet, because when I take pictures of myself, I always seem to hold it where it highlights my nose. (See my profile pic!)  I really do not have that big of a nose, so I decided to wait until I can get someone else to take my picture.

I don't understand why it is, but I cannot seem to convey what it is that I really want done with my hair.  This time I had a picture of what I wanted, yet somehow, the end product was not what I envisioned! I do still like it, though.  Maybe someday, I'll have the dream hair-do!

3.  Someone else to cook dinner:  I mentioned this in my Daybook, but it is worthy of being a highlight here as well:  My oldest daughter cooked dinner for me on Monday.  What a blessing it was to come home (after a hard day at the hairdresser's) to a meal already cooked (and the kitchen cleaned up)!  I just fixed myself a plate and then sat down and enjoyed a leisurely meal.  It was awesome!

4.  Keeping up with Karyn:  This week, I've been enjoying reading Karyn's posts about her trip to Zambia.  It's very interesting!  I know one thing, I'm thankful that I'm not called to go there! (Remember my aversion to sweating.) But I'm glad and thankful that Kathryn and Vinj are! Go to Karyn's blog, Musings from Me, and check it out!

5. Quote of the Week:  "If men and women were surer of their God there would be more genuine manliness, womanliness, and godliness in the world, and a whole lot less fear of each other. " ~Elisabeth Elliot

It all comes back to trust ...


If you'd like to share your week's highlights, link up over at Susanne's Living to Tell the Story.  The FFF participants is a great group of people who are interesting, caring, and they're good commenters!




Thursday, October 21, 2010

Random Dozen from a Co-Lid


This week, our hostess, Linda from 2nd Cup of Coffee, has had a little help from her friend, Linda at Mocha with Linda.

1. Do you prefer to read the book or see the movie? I definitely prefer reading the book.  I'm a voracious reader - reading is my life!
2. What is your favorite holiday and why? Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday because I love the focus on being thankful, and I love the family get-together and the food!
3. Which do you like better - the mountains or the beach? I like them both, but since I grew up in Florida, I feel I should be loyal and say the beach.
4. If money were no consideration, what vehicle would you drive? I'd drive a brand new Lexus SUV (I don't even know what they are called!)
5. What is your favorite cold-weather beverage? I love to sip a cup of hot tea when I'm cold.
6. How do you communicate most often with your friends: phone, email, text, face-to-face, or Facebook? Email is my preferred choice of communication.
7. How do you receive your mail? Mailbox on the porch, at the end of the driveway, down the street, or post office box? Our mailbox is at the end of our driveway.
8. Of the four basic personality types - sanguine, phlegmatic, melancholic, and choleric - which is your strongest? Which is your least evident? (See definitions below.) This is a difficult question because I see myself in all of the basic personality types ... I would say that I'm most like a sanguine and the least like a phlegmatic.
9. What do you miss the most about being 20? I miss being skinny the way I was at 20.
10. How long from the time you get up, does it take you to get ready to walk out the door in the morning? I like to putter around the house, blog, read email, sometimes do laundry so I need about 3 hours from the time I wake up until I walk out the door.
11. Who handles the car maintenance and pays the bills in your family? My husband takes car of all the vehicles and I pay the bills.
12. For those in the US, how many states have you visited? For those outside the US, how many provinces/other countries have you visited? I have actually visited 15, passed through about 25.  I would like to see all the states sometime in my life.

Personality type definitions courtesy Wikipedia:

Sanguine

The Sanguine temperament personality is fairly extroverted. People of a sanguine temperament tend to enjoy social gatherings, making new friends and tend to be quite loud. They are usually quite creative and often daydream. However, some alone time is crucial for those of this temperament. Sanguine can also mean very sensitive, compassionate and thoughtful. Sanguine personalities generally struggle with following tasks all the way through, are chronically late, and tend to be forgetful and sometimes a little sarcastic. Often, when pursuing a new hobby, interest is lost quickly when it ceases to be engaging or fun. They are very much people persons. They are talkative and not shy. For some people, these are the ones you want to be friends with and usually they become life long friends.

Choleric

A person who is choleric is a doer. They have a lot of ambition, energy, and passion, and try to instill it in others. They can dominate people of other temperaments, especially phlegmatic types. Many great charismatic military and political figures were cholerics. They like to be leaders and in charge of everything.

Melancholic

A person who is a thoughtful ponderer has a melancholic disposition. Often very considerate and get rather worried when they could not be on time for events, melancholics can be highly creative in activities such as poetry and art - and can become occupied with the tragedy and cruelty in the world. A melancholic is also often a perfectionist. They are often self-reliant and independent; one negative part of being a melancholic is sometimes they can get so involved in what they are doing they forget to think of others.

Phlegmatic

Phlegmatics tend to be self-content and kind. They can be very accepting and affectionate. They may be very receptive and shy and often prefer stability to uncertainty and change. They are very consistent, relaxed, rational, curious, and observant, making them good administrators and diplomats.

If you'd like to be random also, link up with Linda at 2nd Cup of Coffee.